
"I can ride a bike no handlebars.. no handlebars.."
I just returned from a most exhilarating weekend with two hundred high school students at 3500 feet in the North Cascades, three hours from civilization. What happens when you take six busloads of hormonally alive teens to a very remote place in the mountains, mix in thirty youth directors, parents, pastors and planners, add a truly gifted Lutheran hip-hop/rap artist, (I know, that sounds like an oxymoron!) a pool hall, bowling alley, sauna, great food, ice cream, God’s Word, Sacrament and the Holy Spirit?
Good question, really.
That’s why we went, and that’s why we will go again. Because if faith development was scripted we could just print and mail out books; and we would. But it isn’t, so we go. . .
What happens on a retreat? Which part is the most important? Is it the worship times? The “prayer around the cross?” Sharing Holy Communion with kids from all around the Northwest? Is it small groups? Servant events? Mealtime? Bedtime devotions, song sessions with other churches? Is it deep faith conversations with youth leaders? Is it the guest speaker, or the pristine setting? Is it new friendships? Is it Rustyburgers, or adding wild complication to the timeless classic roadtrip game, “Slug Bug?” Is it narrowly avoiding adding fresh deer hides to the Pastor’s bumper on the way home?
More good questions. I imagine the answers will be different for each of us. That’s why we went, and that’s why we will go again. Because if faith development was scripted we could just print and mail out books; and we would. But it isn’t, so we go. . .
Faith development is so much like good parenting: The doctrine, philosophy, teaching and strategy are all important, but the real fruit of both faith development and parenting is borne in the unscripted times together: in the car, after the meal, before the session, passing firewood, passing gas, during free time . . . in the still and quiet moments and in the ruckus, as long as we are together! And like good parenting, the whole investment is done in love and hope; for there is no guaranteed outcome to our work- only irresistable odds!
That’s why we went, and that’s why we will go again.
I’m convinced that this is why Jesus was not an author, but a friend; not a lawyer but a lover. (Though he was divinely quotable and wonderfully competent in local law!) Jesus went on retreat with the crowds and savored the travel time, taking questions and conversations from the back seat as they came. He sang, laughed, relaxed, ate, cried, worked, “redirected” and rejoiced us through our wonderings into faith. No doubt, Jesus knew the playlist on Peter’s ipod.
That’s why we went, and that’s why we will go again. Want to come along?